tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post3695001328934833086..comments2024-03-17T04:14:05.997-05:00Comments on Sam, Coffee, Money, & Thyme: I Am A Writer, DammitSAMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-69878131832676714452016-12-20T06:45:32.104-06:002016-12-20T06:45:32.104-06:00coming form a true artist, that means a lot Natali...coming form a true artist, that means a lot Natalia. I miss our little writers group, but have liked your collaboration on the fashion front. SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-44312265656984924972016-12-19T21:56:06.835-06:002016-12-19T21:56:06.835-06:00It would be very narrow and limiting to see oursel...It would be very narrow and limiting to see ourselves through the prism of what we do for society or family - and only! It is what resonated deeply with us, that's who we are. It took me years to come to this understanding, but now I have no doubts whatsoever - I am a Writer and an Artist, in a wider sense of the word. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself, Sam! Only you know who you are, and if you relate to yourself as a writer - then you ARE a writer! :)Natalia Lialinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07552652475347261756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-60612545360070797212016-12-19T04:44:05.758-06:002016-12-19T04:44:05.758-06:00Wendy, I always appreciate the feedback and you sh...Wendy, I always appreciate the feedback and you sharing your thoughts via comments on my or others blogs. You have a full plate of self fulfilment with your grandchildren and travel. I guess right now, besides my family, this blog is my love but suspect if life changes, so shall my blogging.SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-45951535100258002232016-12-19T04:30:39.206-06:002016-12-19T04:30:39.206-06:00You are a fab writer and as they say writers write...You are a fab writer and as they say writers write it doesn't matter about the content too much. I used to do Julia Cameron's morning pages just to get in the flow but blogging does the job much better. My life at the mo is not conducive to regular blogging though but I'm aiming to improve next year. You write mostly every day Sam so that makes you a writer. X Wendy @ The contented Cavernhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12997397522566070661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-83078291291602865992016-12-18T18:20:48.485-06:002016-12-18T18:20:48.485-06:00All these wonderful and wise people are confirming...All these wonderful and wise people are confirming this, so it must be true! what a lovely sentiment on blogging, "construct our experience through words". SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-49980430004682137892016-12-18T18:19:19.724-06:002016-12-18T18:19:19.724-06:00I love your spirit, and I think I'm slowly emb...I love your spirit, and I think I'm slowly embracing my ownership, or at least am going to declare it so! SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-10963666626360479342016-12-18T18:17:56.293-06:002016-12-18T18:17:56.293-06:00Jane, that is so kind! I totally agree that gettin...Jane, that is so kind! I totally agree that getting that feedback in an e-mail or a comment, that something written was meaningful, is a joy for me. SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-67888816611820835192016-12-18T18:16:50.973-06:002016-12-18T18:16:50.973-06:00I'm glad I finally finished this post-I've...I'm glad I finally finished this post-I've had a draft for a while, but it wasn't until I received Anne's card that I completed the post. Apparently we share a common bond as bloggers-we are all writers, and while our motivation may be different, each of us have a voice and this provides an outlet. SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-91495868051354979302016-12-18T18:15:00.247-06:002016-12-18T18:15:00.247-06:00I took it up as a learning opportunity, thinking p...I took it up as a learning opportunity, thinking perhaps if I did things right, I might eventually be able to supplement an early retirement with some side gigs writing. I realized how rusty my skills are, but that now is irrelevant. I feel like I have made connections with people I'd have never met in person, who now feel like a part of my circle. SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-54046810275935629672016-12-18T14:20:10.694-06:002016-12-18T14:20:10.694-06:00If you write, you're a writer. Blogging fulfil...If you write, you're a writer. Blogging fulfils a need for many of us - to communicate, to express ourselves, to examine and construct our experiences through words, to connect with others. Keep at it! xxCurtisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10362184504889147455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-83570006723003348122016-12-18T10:30:44.187-06:002016-12-18T10:30:44.187-06:00I've hated that question forever. People alway...I've hated that question forever. People always ask it, almost first thing. And they always expect to you to answer, "what do you do?" with your employment status. But that's not who I am. In 36 years of living that's never been who I am. I was never "a paper carrier" at 13 or so years old. I wasn't a "server" or "child care professional," or "clerk," ect; <br /><br />Answering "what do you do?" with my employment status hasn't ever been honest. At least 10 years back I stopped answering the question the way people expect. Sometimes I say, "I think." That one usually gets strange faces (and I love it). Or I say, "I love spending time with my kid." Or, "I'm outside a lot." Of course then people assume I don't have a job but I don't care. <br /><br />If a random stranger wants to learn a tiny fact about me (or even a relative) then the first thing I'm going to say isn't going to be about how I make money.<br /><br />You are a writer. It's who you are at your core, in your heart. If you can't answer honestly with that answer then it's just because you haven't fully owned it yet. How you make money doesn't define you. Don't let other people try and convince you who you are. You're the only one who really knows you. Just be honest about it. "I am a writer!"rivulethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11352395562904461909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-35239826425797412512016-12-18T10:22:13.523-06:002016-12-18T10:22:13.523-06:00Yes, you are a writer! And I, for one, look forwar...Yes, you are a writer! And I, for one, look forward to hearing what you have to say, no matter how trivial! And...you just never know who is reading...in the past month I've had two emails from long-time readers who never comment so I didn't even know they were reading my blog! But they had something to say and wrote to me. It gave me the best feeling - people are out there reading our words and we don't even "know" them! Keep writing Sam!!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02803104035204416080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-56574699711656113962016-12-18T09:56:27.945-06:002016-12-18T09:56:27.945-06:00I am struggling with some of the same exact things...I am struggling with some of the same exact things...compounded by the fact that I will be potentially facing an emptier nest next summer with G1 most likely beginning her gap year adventures. Besides being a wife and mom, all I have ever wanted to do was be a "writer". Yet, even as my husband encourages me, I still feel like a fraud. Thank you so much for this post - it helped lift my spirits and renew my determination to work on this during 2017!Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15962759988828423369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-35471050271996386832016-12-18T09:54:04.876-06:002016-12-18T09:54:04.876-06:00For me blogging was not so much about the writing ...For me blogging was not so much about the writing as it was connecting. I began this silly blog several years ago as a method of sharing recipes with friends, but it morphed into something completely different. <br />Now instead of connecting with my friends and family that I see on a regular basis, it has allowed me to develop bonds with people outside my realm and become part of the lives that they care to share. What I found most amazing is the honest concern I feel if a regular poster "misses" their typical post time. I find myself hoping all is well with them and love it when they return with some fabulous adventure or a tale about how their time has spun out of control. Who knew it would turn out like this?Anne in the kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01533249631969001657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-23171987896737308702016-12-18T07:16:21.992-06:002016-12-18T07:16:21.992-06:00That is kind of you to say. I really appreciate yo...That is kind of you to say. I really appreciate you commenting.I too find use of pondering and perhaps not commenting always, but so many blogs make me think.SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-65141607443698113662016-12-18T07:14:21.889-06:002016-12-18T07:14:21.889-06:00Thanks Lorraine! Finding kindred souls across the ...<br />Thanks Lorraine! Finding kindred souls across the country and world has been life affirming. That sounds melodramatic considering I have a hubs and three kids, but this feels like me! I'm happy I found your blog as well.<br /><br />SAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485146123969622896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-86548939246388283052016-12-18T06:48:13.737-06:002016-12-18T06:48:13.737-06:00My blog pretty much saved my life. I call it my &q...My blog pretty much saved my life. I call it my "soft place to fall," (a Dr Phil expression). I needed a place to express myself other than in the real world where I felt stifled, unable to share myself free from judgement. I have had many rewards from blogging and not monetary. Readers have sent me emails telling me that my real life experiences have helped them, whether it be online selling, downsizing, relocating, losing weight or other things I've written about in the past 6 years (going on 7 come May). They've asked me for advice, information or to review something they wrote or created. I mean that's awesome! I've even met other bloggers in person and I joined a blogger group here in Alabama. There's always something to write about, always something to share. Keeping it real and honest I think is the key. Yes, you are a writer! We are bloggers! We are writers! :-)Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15328674280714013955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173509801114364154.post-8133925561496056402016-12-18T06:45:15.206-06:002016-12-18T06:45:15.206-06:00I have loved your last few posts, you are indeed a...I have loved your last few posts, you are indeed a writer! I'm mulling over your words even though I haven't commented, I've been a bit under the weather not helpful when I want to say something that makes sense!thrift deluxehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267215022924475298noreply@blogger.com