I hope the week has been good to you. I'm past the hump day of my work week, so already thinking weekend. I want it to be a productive weekend after all the playing I did last weekend. Well, not playing too hard but I didn't get things done that I need to. Besides getting nearer to the end of my work week, it's the day I capture the ways I embraced thrift and frugality, according to my own definitions. I'm always trying to find the balance between spending on needs, adding in a few wants, and saving for the future. Sometimes not buying or spending is just dumb, so I try to take new looks at frugality.
Lady's will understand this, so men, bear with this example. I could have gotten by with the ordering the same practical bras I always go for-do the job, but are not pretty and quite frankly, don't do much for my busty shape. I took the chance and ordered one practical, but splurged on a second version that had good reviews. And guess what-I feel a bit better wearing it and it makes my clothes feel more stylish and not just coverage. I plan to order at least another one. Frugal, no,. Thrifty, no. Feeling a bit better about my appearance? A steal. That's my new look at frugality. Not buying something because it costs more and going for the less expensive option isn't necessarily the good choice. I'll still look for other ways to maximize our families funds, but undergarments'-no scrimping anymore! The girls aside, here are my thrifty moves/gains for the last week.
- Used a $5 coupon to defray a little of our night out dinner last Saturday.
- I wasn't the bill payer this time, but compliments of my friend S, we enjoyed $2 taps and a $5 shared appetizer. Sort of undid our river walk, but hey, beer and friends on a Sunday afternoon.
- In efforts to stay under budget and apply March funds to Easter dinner, I shopped with just a replenish mode, and as of this morning, I'm at $340 for the month in all those grocery/household areas with very few needs to close the month.
- I had waste this week of a old cucumber and some hummus that got pushed to the back of the refrigerator, but we utilized all leftovers for lunches, and for DH snacks.
- Bought a 10# bag of basmati for $9.99, so just $1 a pound, the best price I find. Also picked up 7 ounce pouch of curry powder for $2.49, less than the cost of a.7 ounce in the standard stores, at the same Indian market
- Shopped my mini stock pile for a new bottle of shampoo, bought for peanuts last fall when I had a windfall of coupons for H&B items
- Passed on buying both a pretty Easter egg plate, and a shelf that wasn't quite right. I don't need items in my house that do not help organization and just add more clutter.
- Free to us entertainment was both The Adam Project, which I enjoyed, and a remake of Cheaper by the Dozen, which was mildly amusing. To One Family...I must not have a soul either, as I did not cry during the movie, lol.
- Reused a few Easter wood cut outs for the porch to get a little spring vibe going. It felt good to have the porch swept, the chair cushions cleaned, and a nice place to take advantage of those little snippets of warm weather to read a book, listen to a podcast, or just chat with neighbors.
- The Diet Coke 12 packs at over $5 gave me a shock. A good month to keep on breaking my soda habit.
- Compared Cascade in Sam's Club and determined quantity will save us roughly $7.25 over 5-6 months. Not a ton, but who wants to spend more doing dishes?
- Did some gift shopping for future bdays, taking advantage of winter clearance and 30% coupon.
- Earned additional $20 Kohl's cash, plus $5 for store pick up.
Thrift has the same root as thrive so if your bra (or anything else) causes you to thrive better, it is thrifty.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great way of breaking down the meaning and acting accordingly. Thank you!
DeleteI finally went for a bra fitting 10 years ago and since then I do splurge on good bras.
ReplyDeleteI've had a certain bras for the last 20 years of so that works structurally, just not pretty. I'm happy this one does both.
DeleteI love a post on thrift and frugality. It inspires me to see where I can make cuts. Since growing all our own veg we hardly ever need a big shop and it's saved an absolute fortune on impulse buys.
ReplyDeleteI just have never been a gardener, but I think for my health and budget, plenty of exercise and fresh healthy food, this summer is my goal to at least have a smallish one. I could make whole meals and be happy with what I pick up at farmers markets.
DeleteI always try to buy good quality items. The price may be more in the beginning but they need replaced a lot less often.
ReplyDeleteI remember in my 20's I got in a habit of buying cheaper shoes. I ended up with plantar fasciitis and spent a lot of money at the podiatrist. No more cheap shoes for me.
Enjoy your Thursday!!
My basic bras are of good quality-just not attractive. I like that this is both. Excellent point on shoes-my knee requires a good sturdy shoe for walking.
DeleteA good bra is an investment in yourself as far as I am concerned.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely. I just hate the cost of them when they exceed the rest of my outfit 2 and 3 X!
DeleteA new bra always feels so good, and helps with one's appearance too. It's hard to understand why they are so expensive. But a good quality one is a great investment.
ReplyDeleteFor busty people, they are engineering feats I'm sure!
DeleteYour bra might be a good investment as on a practical level it can change your shape in your clothes. If you feel better when you wear it then it might bring more items in your wardrobe into use because you prefer the way you look. There are some things worth paying more for...you know the old adage buy cheap buy twice which certainly isn't always true, but is sometimes the case. Arilx
ReplyDeleteWhile I don't think I've been cheap on bras-I just haven't splurged on the ones that are both fashionable and functional. This was a win for both. Great points about items in my closet getting a second look.
DeleteThat is a great price for that kind of rice! Bras are my nemesis. I hate them,but alas I need one, well not really, but yes.
ReplyDeleteThe rice cooks up so deliciously. Long grain still has it's place too, but for my Asian inspired cooking, the basmati is so much superior. I'd love to go without, and do sometimes at home, but I'd be appalled to be caught in public not wearing one.
DeleteI think it's definitely worth making savings where possible, so I can afford to spend more on a quality item that I know will last and will give me endless pleasure.
ReplyDeleteThis was the time to buy-I'm not spending much on clothes so spending more on the bras won't hurt the budget.
DeleteI am very frugal with bras. I just don't buy them anymore.
ReplyDeleteIf you feel comfortable out and about without wearing one, more power to you.
DeleteI agree! My splurges are good undergarments and weekly grocery store flowers. I give up other things to make those happen
ReplyDeleteI think that is a lovely treat. I'll probably buy myself a lily or another blooming plant in the next week or so and get some flowers in the house.
DeleteThere seems to be a consensus about a good bra being an investment. I remember getting properly measured in England last time I was there - talk about humiliating when you find out you've been wearing them 8 sizes too small, but the difference they make is priceless!
ReplyDeleteWho knew it would get so much attention! For me, it was wearing the wrong cup size, and too big inch wise. No wonder I looked droopy!
DeleteI am dealing with a re-vote of a school levy in our neck of the woods. It is fairly contentious among the less than 25% of the voters who turned out. (Which is why it is up for vote again--less than 25% turnout, then they are allowed to repetition within a given amount of time.) In any case, all I can think is "For the love of God, the plural of 'levy' is 'levies,' not 'levy's.' Is it too much to ask you to drop the y and add ies?" Makes me want to vote no out of pure irascibility. Wish the committee had listened to me the dozen times I pointed this out before they sent out the direct mailer in support of the levy.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like a lot of frustration! 2 of the 3 lustrous new board members got themselves in community hot water taking it upon themselves to censor books available at a book fair. Even the 3rd in their ultra right wing conservative trio thought they went too far!
DeleteThis is one of my basic rules of clothing: spend on eyeglasses, bras and shoes. Buy everything else second-hand. As a busty gal myself (34DD, a really hard size to find!), and a vintage clothing wearer, I spend a lot on my bras (they are $85 each, and they never go on sale), but I take care of them and they wear well. Best of all, they DO make your clothes look better and make you stand a little straighter. Totally worth it, Sam.
ReplyDeleteYou are tiny though with the band size! My daughter has that issue-she's a 32 (and even that sometimes is too loose) DD. Yes-really hard to find. When I was thin/in shape, I admittedly was probably wearing too small a cup size and was probably closer to you.
DeleteAgreed - a good bra makes all the difference! Treaders, intrigued/scared on the bra that's 8 sizes too small!?!
ReplyDeleteI read that and thought she had to have either been sucking in all the air to breath, or spilling out everywhere, lol.
DeleteAwww, Tammy, I miss her and commonsense approach to life so much.
ReplyDeleteLike my Mum, I don't wear bras but was brought up to buy the best I could afford - I own 8 pairs of 100% cotton knickers, bought from Marks & Spencers in 2005 and they're still absolutely fine. Cheap garments (unless they're secondhand) are false economy. xxx