It's too early to drag out White Christmas, but after my sister's weekend, thought this little diddy appropriate. We can still 55 years after all being sister's, defend each other to the core, but we also can have a whirlwind of different thoughts and opinions, and we're not shy sharing.
It's my weekly set aside to share my joys, simple pleasures, and smiles for the prior week. Things are not all roses, or rather sunflower's or daisy's as I prefer, but the flowers peek through every day.
Tuesday: The day started rocky, not going into details, but it got better. The day weather wise was still unusually warm. I enjoyed extra sniffy walks with the dogs.
Wednesday: The day started with me crying at 6:45 to learn someone sat on an email for a week without passing it on, leaving me scrambling to complete yet one more thing for the project from hell. The good thing was I could find what was needed. I met friends for trivia. We were first at the half, but picked the wrong megaround and gave up points, placing second just .5 points behind. I really like getting out with this group of friends.
Thursday: I brought grandpup home to his house. I resolved yesterday's work issue. Puppy was an absolute joy to spend the day with, and we took a noon walk. Later when my daughter got home, we took a walk together before I went home. Pup was so happy to see me, but I think he might actually have missed the puppy.
Friday: Friday started more seasonably cooler and windy weather. The most lovely simple pleasure after walking pup in the cold, brusk morning was walking into the nice cozy warm house. I got to talk with my younger daughter who booked her end of December logistics for post Spain Study program. I also scheduled one of those Christmas market days with the mom friends for December 3. It's nice to have things on the calendar by choice not obligation.
Saturday: Despite the damp and cool day, we had a good day starting with breakfast out then shopping, followed by more food and drink at a local to the lake bar and grill, before heading to lake house for the rest of the night. Unfortunately a sister's husband had a medical issue, so she stayed behind but she joined in later for facetime for a couple hours.
Sunday: We had a lesisurely morning with coffee, juice, fruit, and muffins before all packed up to get home. I enjoyed a walk with pup, the Vikings win with DH, and then went to my daughter's. She unfortunately didn't have a fun weekend trying to keep an active puppy with new stitches calm. It helped having me there so she could get a bit of sleep. Between the meds, daylight savings time change, and just puppiness, his bathroom needs and sleeping pattern need to reset. The sister that couldn't come, her husband ended up in urgent care Sunday morning but we got a positive report later that he's doing better.
Monday: With grand pup recovery, I stayed with him at my daughter's yesterday. There was beautiful sunlight in the morning before gray and overcast took over, which he loves, streaming in her east facing big windows over her window seat.
Work was "fine"- no major new issues, but the only really good thing I have to say about work right now is it's a steady paycheck. I'm not even feeling mission inspired. Maybe tomorrow after the election is done and I know what the education sector might be facing, I'll get my passion sparked again. That's my positivity about work this week. Home projects that keep piling up and undone and family stuff are still challenging, but I feel like DH, my kids, and I are supporting each other and that's a very positive part of life. There's things I wish that were different, but considering the whole picture, my life is good. Please share the positives in your life right now.
You two are quite fortunate to have each other.
ReplyDeleteNot two- I have 7 sister's, though I e passed away 9 years ago, plus my brothers wife who I've never not known.
DeleteI'm happy to hear you had a nice girls weekend with your sisters. Keep looking for the joys. I believe it's all that keeps us sane.
ReplyDeleteYou're very right on the sanity part. Last night got a bit tough trying to wrangle the puppy in just the main floor, but keep him out of the living room. DH took over and I got a break that was very needed.
DeleteI just finished A Dog's Purpose by Bruce Cameron, one of the best books I have ever read.
ReplyDeleteI saw the movie. It was very good, and I'll take you up on your recommendation to read it.
DeleteI’m sorry you are feeling not so great. Those dogs of yours are a great blessing to you. We have a 13 year old M dog and a three year old F dog who get on fine. Earlier this year our sons dog came to live with us when he moved and was unable to take him. Six months later and things are just beginning to calm down. They all like their seperate times but are a pack now. I’m sure your dog will accept the new pup given more time.
ReplyDeleteThat's just the key. The older dog needs his seperate time but they both want me at the same times. Once puppy is fully healed we can try to get our new normal back.
DeleteI am sorry you cried. I hate it when I am brought to tears by someone who just did not give a sh$t enough to carry through. But sisters are the greatest almost all the time.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't believe it sat a week, and no one checked in to see if I had questions, needed help, with no realization they dropped the ball. My new boss is 40% helpful, 40%learning, and 20% a road block because she sticks herself into things but then drops the ball in key things. I'm reaching a breaking point and that makes me sad.
DeleteI have been reduced to tears at work too. I'm very sorry someone put you through that. Glad you had a good sisters weekend. I hope your brother in law is better now.
ReplyDeleteWork should never be the source of tears. I'm sorry for your situation as well. I needed the day out.
DeleteWork people are the worst - they do stoopid things! I try not to get riled up by their (in)actions, and try to shrug it off as much as I can ("People gonna people!"), but I totally get how frustrating that situation must have been!
ReplyDeleteHang in there, honey. *hug*
Positive things in my life:
I'm having cream of mushroom soup for dinner (can only eat when husband isn't here).
My cat can see.
I have a good start on repairing my relationship with my brother.
My mom is happy with me.
My mother-in-law called last night (she has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's) and was distressed. I calmed her down and made her laugh and told her I loved her.
I have a good job where people appreciate me.
I like treating myself to food DH doesn't eat if he's out. Good for you to make your soup. I shouldn't have gotten so upset, but we are under a microscope for this project, so for it to sit a full week was unacceptable, but didn't impact the ones who dropped the ball. I had the fallout.
DeleteI am sorry something work related caused you to cry.
ReplyDeleteI hope this week is filled with joys (and how can a week with the Pup and puppy not have some joys?)
He wasn't joyful trying to keep him out of my living room. I can't wait until he can do stairs again once suture is healed. They are both sweet boys. Work just is not sweet right now.
DeleteSounds like your sisters weekend was lovely. Work is also the opposite of fun in every possible way right now. So, I feel you.
ReplyDeleteAs for me: found a great option for a gift for M for Christmas (staying at a hotel, for free, using points. Time together is always his first choice.) Got our Thanksgiving menu planned. The boys both made the first round of cuts for school soccer. Nick's team had their first win this season (it's been a real rocky season).
Oh no, I hate that work made you cry. Thank goodness for the unconditional love of those dogs of yours.
ReplyDeletePositives - it hasn't rained today, I've sold lots on ebay and I'm going out for dinner and a trip to the theatre with some friends shortly. Not such a bad day! xxx