With my daughter having a new house, she's been little by little adding things to turn a house that had been stripped of any identity prepurchase, to her home. There's things she had to buy, like a lawn mower and a dehumidifier for her basement. Then there's touches shes now adding. She was smart to keep her savings at both an emergency fund level, and keep 6 months living expenses. As a single person, working in the quasi public/ NGO world and having no second income to fall back on means she's making every dollar count. I'm so proud of what she's accomplished.
This brings me to my Monday noodling. When is spending money on something an investment, and not just a purchase? I feel firmly that when our homes are cozy, reflect our personality and lifestyle, we want to spend more time there. When we're home, we're not spending money, online shopping aside. Her recent purchases included bohemian floor rugs for her living room and dining room, sheer, but patterned curtains that will tie her eclectic style together with cohesion, and a chaise. She bought a few accent items, throws and pillow for a sunny yellow pop.
The floor lamp was the same one I found as part of a $5 anything in a bag, church sale. ( That also yielded three pairs of like new jeans, a Christmas platter, and a decanter). She loves the result. She has other thrifty ideas to keep adding style, but is done with buying as she's adequately invested in her home for now. Her next investment, and will be major, is a fence, hopefully this spring.
I've rambled for years that we need to redo bathrooms and the deck/patio. I see these as investments both in quality of life for however long we decide to stay in our house and for resale. We know once we go to put our house on the market it should sell fast, but still want it to be at it's best. We are in that sweet housing market spot of having a house big enough for a family, including 3-4 bedrooms or office, three on one floor, two living rooms (family room as we call lower level) a large kitchen with seperate dining room, and two bathrooms. We're on a Cul de sac and back up to a park. But, we're not McMansion size or price, so the buyers market should be broad. Our two housing negatives are no main floor laundry or bathroom. The buyers that need those features though are the same as us, which would be why we'll move eventually.
Unlike our daughter, we're not buying any home furnishings. I plan to keep what we have in good shape, protecting the investments made years ago. This spring I'll repaint the 30 year old kitchen table and chairs, steam clean the 16 year old living room furniture, and we need to repaint all the walls. Any other spending would just feel like that, spending not investing. We may want different furniture once we move so replacing old, but not worn now seems wasteful. Plus, I still really like my living room set.
We've toyed with replacing kitchen counters as they're still builder grade formica, but they're a light gray neutral, and once we updated the flooring and appliances four years ago, they look fine. How we managed to avoid any damage over 32 years is a mystery. Original upper level carpeting needs replacing as does the stuff in my office, but once DH retires, he can research options. Purging is the biggest home improvement we can do, and 2023 must be the year, garage included.
So that brings me back to my question to myself. When is it investment and when just spending money? The answer is individual to each person, each family. When things have no wow factor, nor help hold or increase value, to me that's just spending. As for pets, pup will probably cost us more in his care as he ages, but we'll spend what's needed to keep him healthy with a good life. The puppy makes my daughter's house a home, and we consider him adopted to the family. He's her biggest ongoing expense, but worth every penny.
We ask that question a lot along with is this a "now" thing or a "down the road in our old age" thing.
ReplyDeleteWe too are thinking what will keep us independent the longest. Our next home will be for that purpose.
DeleteWe're pretty torn on our house. We've never loved the floor plan (it's quite "closed" & we prefer a more open plan. We did what we could when we moved in (raised the ceiling in the very dark hallways) & brightened things up, went bigger with the "cut outs" that frame a few of the rooms. It all helped, but our layout is just not modern. The house was built in the 50s, and is pretty original looking. We did update the kitchen this summer. We have no bath tub, and that's the true heart breaker for me, as I'm an avid bath taker. If we do another upgrade, it will be that, but that change requires us to think through which of the other changes would we do? There's no way to just make the swap, as there's a handicap style "shower/bath" situation right now, & the entire bathroom would need a remodel.
ReplyDeleteWe're not sure what the next five years holds, in terms of location. The boys will be out of the house, and we're paying to live in an incredibly pricey location. We love it here, but maybe we could love somewhere else, that's cheaper. So, we haven't wanted to invest a lot.
We've done a lot to our house over the last few years and we look at it as an investment to us. Having our home in good repair and clean and organized makes it very relaxing to be here. I look at our house as our sanctuary so I'm willing to spend whatever needs to be spent.
ReplyDeleteI like that thinking. Sanctuary to really enjoy each day. I don't want fancy but do want comfortable.
DeleteLoving the chair and footstool, the colour is gorgeous.
ReplyDeleteTrends come and go, economies crash, far better to buy with your heart than make an investment which may, in a few year's time, be a white elephant.
There's very little in our house that was bought new - the interior has developed over the years with things we've acquired secondhand, inherited, pulled out of skips, found on our travels and made ourselves and there's a story behind almost everything. It ain't to everyone's taste but it's ours! xxx
Her chairs actually all one piece, not a seperate footstool. It also goes back and will lay flat like a small bed. It's what she wanted. Other things I'm her house she'll keep with the inherited, thrifted, rescued theme to make her own. Much of my house is that way too. Your house is gorgeous and fits you so that is what matters.
DeleteI ask myself if things are, "a table or a ceramic chicken." It is the same thing. Is this necessary or just something that is cute and you like?
ReplyDeleteWe need no ceramic chickens. Isn't some stuff in stores just awful!
DeleteI love the chair, what a rich colour.
ReplyDeleteIn my home nothing matches, nothing is new, but it’s mine and I love it. That’s what all homes should be.
We are about to undertake an extensive renovation that hopefully should either make as sure of staying here or selling.
Megan
We just need updates and fixes, but sort of "blanding" our house for simplicity. I e never had matching bedroom stuff.
DeleteMy home is like Vix's, a mix of old, inherited and second hand. Im very happy with it. It's small but has all I need, but eventually I'd like to move to be near my sister or my niece when I retire. I'm too far from family and feel that I need to be closer as I age. For now I try to keep the house well maintained. That's the investment.
ReplyDeleteWe think in terms of long term independence. That's why our next house has to be planned out well. I'm by family but weather is starting to get to me.
DeleteWe seem to do a big project every 5 years or so (the kitchen, new deck and patio around the pool, both upstairs bathrooms, and our latest was siding and windows). We're not planning on selling in the near future, so I'm happy to be able to enjoy all of our improvements.
ReplyDeleteOur long term goal has always been to "be where we need to be before we need to be there". Dealing with my inlaws as they aged was a real eye opener for us. We're still able to take care of the yard and the pool but when we can't, do we move, or just pay someone to do it for us? How old will we be before we can't walk up and down the stairs?
My house is a lot of stairs. No main floor laundry, bedroom, or bathroom so I know eventually we'll need to move. I'm thinking 5-10 years for sure. The current housing markets rough for all.
DeleteMy home was so comfortable, all rooms were large and had doors, and I loved it. Furnishing were rarely new, usually antiques, sometimes bought, sometimes from the curb. Other things were bought new in 1966. It all worked for a very comfortable and happy place to live. I considered my house payments and investment and stayed home while friends took fancy trips. But, that was not me.
ReplyDeleteI'm still sorry you couldn't get the roof repaired and your house was able to remain yours. It sounds like it was lovely.
DeleteSome purchases are investments in comfort. I agree on your statement about purging. I have done rather well last year but, there is still more to be done. Even my uncle told me that my home now looks bigger and well put together when he walked in.
ReplyDeleteThere's never a shortage to purge is there? That's a nice testament to your efforts.
DeleteWe moved two years ago. We decided we are from the West and needed to return. We built one of the three “Nana and Papa” houses in the 80 house development. Ours is one level 3 bed/ 2 1/2 bath and totally “age in place” (including a closet for a personal robot). Drawers in kitchen, no high cabinets, walk in (wheel in) shower, easy tub in second bath. The neighborhood is mostly master on ground floor and four bedrooms in the daylight basement. Built for the long haul by 40-50 year olds. We figure we will be here ten years(75/82) and then will go much smaller for our elderly years. Time will tell.
ReplyDeleteThat would work for us really well. We also don't want HOA fees or rules, so a townhouse won't work well for us.
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