It was a good weekend day with my sisters, though I had a slap in the virtually face at breakfast. We have not eaten inside many restaurants yet, and since our local Perkins is temporarily shut down after a kitchen fire and now a remodel, It's been pre-pandemic since I was in one, likely our last sisters day two years ago. I think I've shared I really like going out for breakfasts (When I've had enough time for my meds to settle) and Happy Hour more than for other meals. As I eagerly looked over the menu, all the regular breakfasts combos looked like massive amounts of food, and with no place to put a take home box, I wasn't sure what I'd order. My sisters, the helpful B's they are, LOL, were happy to point out that I can now order from the 55+menu! How did that happen? I tuned 55 over Covid, and most "senior" menus don't start that young. I was able to order a smaller version of the eggs Benedict, and got the reality check that in some circles, I am now a senior citizen.
We had all our usual stops, and being a beautiful Saturday in November, the little towns and villages we visit were full. One village markets this weekend, the hunting season opener, Women's Weekend, so there were extra treats and give away drawings at a few shops. We all donned masks inside stores despite all of us being vaccinated. I saw outside one store a perfect table for my porch, the ones above, but we were already packed tight to lug it home. I may talk DH into driving down with me, or as I have time off this week, might take myself. I have looked for ages, and the price was right for this. I didn't do a ton of buying, though found a few treats-cherry rhubarb jam, some vegan Swedish fish for DD1, locally made beef sticks for DH, and a Minnesota and Wisconsin cookie cutter. I've always wanted them to make for summers at the lake, to have fun with the Minnesota-Wisconsin connection, and for work functions. At the cidery/winery, I didn't buy any beverages to take home, but did find this insulated wine glass and napkins for one sister. It is very much a joke between the two of us, so as insulting as it seems to give her, I know she will get a kick out of it.
We met up then with our cousin, my mom's one sisters daughter, and then four cousins who are actually the daughters of my mom's cousin, so does than make them my 3rd cousins? Their mom and my mom were best friends as well as cousins, so these women grew up with my cousin and older sisters. The closest one to my age is 8 years older, so I didn't know them in the same way, but they very much are family. The one who hosting had just moved into a gorgeous townhome that overlooked the Mississippi river valley. She and her sisters put out quite a spread of hors d'oeuvres for our dinner, and we all brought lots of beverages to enjoy. Basically Happy Hour four multiple hours! We ate and laughed, and ate more' then we played four games of silly Bingo. Now my oldest sister, and her cousin counterpart love to go to the Casino to play Bingo-serious Bingo, no chatter allowed. We all had fun joking that we'd be kicked out if we kept laughing. Both gave us all the stink eye, but of course that just made us chat it up more. The balls kept getting knocked off the counter and we used candy pieces for dobbers, which kept getting eaten. It was all just good fun.
My cousin even had prizes, but we also anti-upped $25 a game, so the big pot was a whole $3 if you won. I won the double postage stamp game and got some Dino-Snores slipper socks, but traded with my sister for this dish towel, as she doesn't drink coffee, and it just seemed like I should have the coffee towel. We were 13 women, ages 54 to 74 and we talked and laughed like we were teens at a girls sleep over. Yesterday morning the effect of too much snack food, a couple Truly's, and likely the fatigue from my booster caught up and I was happy for the extra hour of time to do nothing. Now I'm back to being the angel I usually am, as illustrated in the picture below, captured outside the wall of the cutest shop. I hope you had a good weekend, and if you are still reading, I didn't bore you. Happy Monday, gems.The camera adds, 50 pounds right? |
Sounds like a wonderful weekend! So glad you had fun.
ReplyDeleteLove the angel picture!
This is the first time I've been where Angel wings were present so it seemed fitting.
DeleteOh my gosh, Sam. A senior citizen?! No way! 😂 At 54, I am right behind you! 😂
ReplyDeleteI was happy to use the lighter menu, but for goodness sake-it seemed awfully young!
DeleteLOL, I had that same "senior" realization 2 years ago at a Denny's.
ReplyDeleteWe don't have Denny's around here anymore-is that a 55 senior menu as well?
DeleteJust the other day after I read your previous post, I told my sister about your sisters weekend and that I want a weekend out of 52 weekends every year with her only. We get together as a family but I want one little exception. She said she will set aside that sister time but we will see. Lol! I am glad you had such a fun time and that you get along so well with each other.
ReplyDeleteI highly recommend you do it! My girls have sisters nights all the time, but its challenging when different personality and organization styles! For those wihtout sisters, find your people .
DeleteSounds like so much fun! Love that you had such a nice weekend with the women in your life.
ReplyDeleteWe can all be stubborn, or get catty ike the best of them (hence the wine glass) but after all is said and done. these are the women that know me the best.
DeleteThat's so funny - senior citizen, indeed - I'm right behind you, less than a month till I join you for discounted food & booze (I wish!)
ReplyDeleteThat's a lovely photo of you and your wings! xxx
My brother likes to be referred to as the family elder now Well, I suppose he became that after my oldest cousin died. I don't mind getting older, but I'm not a fan of labels. The sote inside was gorgeous-women owned, with all artisan women made clothing, pottery, and jewelry, and he food items ethically grown and sourced. The angel wings outside seemed to fit.
DeleteYour group of girls sound fun. Wish I had a group like that! AND, I see you found wings, too. I thought the camera added pounds to my wings picture, too. I was in trouble and yelled at for getting in a line for seniors one time. I was sixty and the line was for 55+. Sometime, the perks are pretty good.
ReplyDeleteThe restaurant was so short staffed I doubt anyone would have said boo had I not been 55. Lucky you being mistaken for such a youngster.
DeleteGlad you enjoyed a nice weekend. I'm 54 so feel your pain on the senior label.
ReplyDeleteI don't mind getting older-as I said to Vix, hate the label though. Why can't people order off a smaller sized menu without being under 12 or over 55!
DeleteIn UK terms, you are but a teenager! Senior Citizenship doesn't start until your at least 65!That's sisters for you!
ReplyDelete55 is quite early for Senior menus. I've seen 60 and 65. Full retirement now is 67 for my birth year, so I have a ways before the government recognizes me as a Senior!
DeleteYour "girls day out" sounds just fabulous to me. All the more so since as family you will have so many stories in common! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
ReplyDeleteThat is always part of the fun for the three youngest-my sisters on each side of me, in particular me and the youngest as we have no memories of our grandparents, grandma passing before we were born, and grampa at just 2 1/2 and 1 year olds. I have the address now for th ehouse my mom grew up in-so I plan a drive by as it is only a town 30 minutes away.
DeleteAccording to those bothersome AARP folks, we are ALL seniors at 49! lol
ReplyDeleteWell the AARP people are flipping A's! The discounts aren't even that good.
DeleteThey are your 2nd cousins to answer your question.
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