Tuesday, April 5, 2022

Positively Tuesday- I Like Lemons

      I've had some trying to turn lemons into lemonade situations in the last week. I'm trying to avoid the words emergency or crisis unless things really are such. It's apparent that I truly have had little of either directly in the last year, but lemons have been plenty. I'm trying to adopt the attitude, "I like lemons" and just get on with things. I'm trying to not take work frustrations personally, while trying to help resolve whatever has gotten people uptight. I'm trying to figure out better ways of managing the personal lemons as well. Even if I can't quite make lemonade, I can at least try and mitigate the problem, clean up the residual mess, and hope things go smoother. Lemons are excellent for cleaning, even if just as a message that something isn't working and needs to be fixed.

   So cryptic analogies aside, I did have some legitimate joys and simple pleasures and not just lemons. Some will crop up or have already in other posts for different themes. 

  1. I was disappointed that no one could do trivia last Wednesday, but I took advantage of the time to take a slower, yet bundled walk with pup. Supper was more heat up, other than slicing potatoes for fries, so felt no hurry mid week.
  2. I received a message at work that they added perks for five year anniversary. Mine was two years ago but they caught all 2020 and 2021 anniversaries. I ordered a food scale both for portion control but also to help expand cooking with recipes grams as opposed to cups and teaspoons. 
  3. Homemade egg rolls! So delicious for Saturdays lunch and looking forward to it with stir fry tonight. A bonus, I met neighbors I didn't know as the egg roll chef was just down the street.
  4. Date late afternoon with DH brought us to the local movie theater for the latest Batman installment. It was long. I also can't say it was my preferred version of the various Batman takes. It was so dark the entire movie-even more than normal. Is there literally no daytime in Gotham City? So while the movie was not really a joy, it did give DH and I much to talk about. And, also chatted with my son last night too about it. 
  5. We've enjoyed the NCAA basketball finals weekend. Saturday night I made yummy pub like food (quesadillas) to enjoy with them. We had no skin in the game, but what another crazy men's finish.  Congratulations Kansas, men's, and South Carolina, women's champions.
  6. My daughter came over Sunday morning for coffee. 
  7. I started a new 3 wick candle White, Eucalyptus and Sage. It is quite calming. 

  8. DH did an orange oil treatment to the dining room table and it looks so fresh. I hate the smell of it while its being done and the feel of it on my hands even more, even when I wear gloves. I'm happy and appreciate that he does it every 3-4 months as it really does help the oak look beautiful
  9. At work, IT was able to recruit and sign our favorite developer back part time, and all his time is directed to my program. His work will solve multiple headaches I experience every day. 
  10. When walking pup yesterday, despite the cold it was sunny so many people were out and the park was filled with kids. I got a good smile at some kids trying to teach a smaller boy how to toss a ball in the air, then quickly correctly grab the bat to be your own pitcher. Pup was doing his smelling lingering so I got to eaves drop and observe for a few minutes. He hadn't quite mastered it by the time we kept walking, but was getting closer. 
     I keep harping over and over about trying to keep positive and look for the things that make me happy. For me it is about a mindset of abundance even if I have hopes, dreams, and wants not totally fulfilled. I'm back to trying to capture at least 10 a week though this might be the eleventh. I like talking with all of you, that brings me joy. You keep me honest in sharing that despite no one having a perfect life free from lemons, there's good stuff always still there.

20 comments:

  1. All this citrus talk made my nose tingle inside. Yep, really. I am allergic to lemons.

    Since Marie Kondo spoiled the word "joy" for me, I find happiness everywhere. I don't have to look. I know it is wrong of me, but I just cannot bear the word anymore.

    The little boy learning to toss his own ball to bat was certainly a special moment to treasure. I enjoy those moments.

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    1. Well, best to avoid lemons if you have allergies. That will make life go smoother. Happinesses doesn't seem to capture a moment. I've been unhappy at times of my life, but able to appreciate a joy even in unhappy times.

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  2. I remember the days when I came home from work saying I smelled of smoke because I spent my day fighting fires. Don't miss them a bit. Having someone working with your team sounds like a real win.

    I never did master being able to throw the ball and hit it with the bat. I'm always impressed with people who are coordinated. Hearing the laughter and joy of small people as they play is a wonderful thing.

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    1. I'll need to remember that one- great analogy. Yesterday's fire was 4 alarm. I can't tell you the number of hours we played ball like this with one of us batting and one fielding.

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  3. We finish our day over supper sharing blessings... like Hubby blew the tire on the work truck, but no damage done to rim (even though he was hauling a loaded trailer) and no one was hurt and no damage was done to anything. The cost of the replacement is a LEMON.

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    1. That's a very positive way to make sure life events don't determine quality of your life.

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  4. I had to laugh at your "cooking with grams" comment. When I left England we were still switching over from ounces to grams. Then in Switzerland it was grams/kg, and then I moved to the States and it was all cups and spoons. I mean seriously, how much does a "stick" of butter weigh???? I think I've got it all figured now but it sure as heck isn't easy!

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    1. I think you sent or posted a conversion chart for me. The scale will be a help. There's so many good cooking shows and YouTube that I'll be cooking like Nigella soon.

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  5. It sounds like you had some true joys this week.I would be inclined to watch a kid learning a fun new skill. I would probably look like a goofy old lady, grinning the whole time while watching.
    Home made egg rolls! Yes for the win! I do love them but hate the mess so I very, very rarely make them.
    I don't think anyone should have all of their hopes and dreams fulfilled. We should always keep dreaming and hoping for better while learning contentment with things that are going well/ semi well/kinda sorta OK/ not quite devastating.

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    1. I can see myself making a huge mess if I tried to make my own egg rolls. DH loved them last night with dinner. The little kids were so cute.

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  6. It is good practice to try and stay tuned to joy rather than every aggravation the day brings. Some days bring more than others. I have to work on staying up so much of the time. It can be exhausting. But not as exhausting as letting my mind go to a dark place.

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    1. The dark place is too hard to walk out of. Thinking about all the good in a week even if so small is not just important but essential.

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  7. Pretty candle. I can't use scented candles anymore, sadly I do miss them, and my beeswax candles, while glorious, are so expensive. (Plus, I have to make them myself.) I do love sitting in a quiet room at the end of the day with one lit, though. My kids are very careful of intruding on my time when I relax that way, and have been overheard warning one another, "Mom's watching the candles burn."

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    1. I love that your kids know that's your alone time to enjoy your candles!

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    2. Let's see, how are things going this week:
      -I successfully survived the first full company wide day back. That meant lots of traffic, jam ups & shortages everywhere. However, there was so much energy in my office, and people catching up after two years apart, plus lots of new faces. The energy was fantastic.
      -I used the treadmill at the work gym, which puts me in the office ahead of the morning commute.
      -I bring my own blow dryer from home, because, while $$$, it blow dries my hair in 1/2 or 1/3 of the time of the blow dryer at work. What a fantastic indulgence that quite literally saves me time on busy mornings.
      -I didn't have time for coffee this morning before I hustled out of the house at 6:15. But, they had delicious coffee & oat milk at the office. Hurrah!
      -I convinced my coworker to sign up for an early morning spin class with me tomorrow.
      -I had lunch with a colleague I hadn't seen in two years, and it was so lovely. We bumped into another friend that we hadn't seen in even longer, and again, so nice to catch up.

      That's not to say that it was easy (I'm exhausted after a super long day), but there really were some very good moments within.

      -Oh, and last but definitely not least, my mom is going to extend her spring break visit (my dad will head home, as he has a conflict) to help me out the week after, when M is traveling & I have four evening work commitments. I'm so relieved, because the schedule juggling was going to be a nightmare.

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    3. I love Mega kids phrase! I do that with fire of any kind. I keep my eyes open for Bees wax candles now. This was a gift. I'm trying to actual use all the candles I get but no burning when DH us home and I put mine out a couple hours before he's home.

      HP you have so much new adjustment again. I hope you get those opportunities with coffee with coworkers. Lovely your mom can stay longer.

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  8. I work in IT as well - lots of lemons there! I have a few mantras I use to help me not escalate my stress:
    - Let it go!
    - Not my monkeys, not my circus.
    - Is this the hill I want to die on?

    Finding happiness in the little things is where it's at! Good interactions with colleagues, being able to help someone who was completely confused, cleaning out (yet another) desk - mission accomplished! I'll take a bunch of little things over one big thing, any day.

    I'm waiting for the new Batman. I'm tired of all the Batmans (Batmen?). How about some more Wonder Woman??

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    1. I don't work in IT, but my program has a complex data system and our policies keep evolving so we have to keep the system updated. We're woefully behind because IT has too few staff. This guy is so good- better at 1//2 time than a full time other. Helping someone else is always a good joy. I can say there is no shortages of Batmen!

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  9. Good choice on the scale. I love mine. Accurate measurements in baking make it all the better.

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    1. I think it will be fun to try new recipes, and get a reality check on portion sizes.

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