I'm back to work for today and tomorrow, though tomorrow will be off and on. My son's plane gets in a little after midnight and that makes me smile. Fingers crossed that he's not impacted by this winter storm being predicted. The bulk is supposed to be morning to afternoon, then lull, then start again all day Wednesday. After a whole year of capturing the things that bring me joy, are a simple pleasure, or make me smile, I get to capture another 52 weeks. I been dropping my 2023 goals into posts this week so thought I'd use this week to both capture the positives and since most focus on people and experiences, I'd put those 2023 goals here. I think the relationships are more resolutions than goals.
Relationships
- Lift people up and avoid snarkiness and assume good intent. That doesn't mean being a pushover to others mistreatment or words, just neither instigating or ignoring issues, or making something out of nothing.
- Step back from offering up before asked, advice, guidance, and general busybodies to my kids. Be there when they request help though.
- Have DH and I only activities monthly. This is harder than it sounds, and I don't mean doing shopping or going out for a meal, but intentional outings. Too many people I know have lost significant others sooner than imagined. I don't think any regrets from either of us.
Experiences
- Accept the majority of social invitations received, either as a couple or individual. I've already accepted a drop in "puzzle party", by a friendly acquaintance, set up to break the January doldrums.
- Start our 500 card club in February.
- Attend church live, public health dependent, at least 2x per month. Do at least 2 faith based additional activities in the year.
The joys this week we're,
- Tuesday: We just had a quiet putszing day, watching movies, and relaxing. We got Christmas gifts put away.
- Wednesday: We treated ourselves to pizza out at a local bar. Most came home, providing easy dinner another night and a lunch.
- Thursday: Had a nice lunch and visit with my cousin and three sisters.
- Friday: Things at work didn't need a lot of attention, so that made me happy. We enjoyed some football, walks, and I had a quiet day as DH ended up at work for a holiday party, and made an unexpected sale when a long term customer stopped in.
- Saturday: Both DH and I had the start of a cold and I had a late afternoon headache. Still, we connected with kids and family, enjoying a quiet night home.
- Sunday: Despite the ugly Vikings game, it was a good day getting the tree down, long walks with dogs, and a relaxing night. I was still nursing a headache, in the morning so didn't go to church, so watched on line services.
- Monday: It was good having yesterday off. I got a few household things done, relaxed a bit, and took dogs out for a few walks. I also got some Instagram photos printed for my daughter and ordered a photo scrap. Ok. I know she'll want to choose her own, but I thought getting her started would be a fun gift.
I'm trying not to be crabby about going back to work. I'll have a few full days and half days with the kids. I hope you have a good week and keep things on the positive side.
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| Fitting to go with my Game of Thrones binge watching. |
First of all, Happy First Day of 2023 work year. I return to work Jan 9th. I'm glad to have this week off to gain more strength. I love your goals and joys. Our world has gotten so dark, we need some light.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Though, even with the snow, so much if it, the moonlight was gorgeous reflecting on the drifts.
DeleteI have never heard of a puzzle party.
ReplyDeleteSomeone sets up tables with puzzles, you stop by, stay and go as you can, eat chat, have fun.
DeleteIt always seems that going back to work in January is a challenge. It's hard to gear things up after the holidays. Sometimes it's slower work load for some businesses, that slowly pick up again. I always felt that January went on forever and ever. Even though 31 days, felt so much longer and also knowing no more time off (aside from scheduling your own time) until the end of May, seemed so far away. Having another mini break might be just enough to make your January a little easier. I will keep my fingers crossed that none of the storms will affect your son's flight and getting picked up at the airport. If there's any thing to take from this storm prediction, it seems the worst of it may be south of the metro. Either way, stay safe. Safe travels. Ranee
ReplyDeleteSon's plane was cancelled, the connection, so he's stuck in Phoenix. Work will be crazy in January, always is, but more so this year.
DeleteI should endeavor to keep snarkiness at a minimum, but doubt I will succeed because so many people.....oops, hold on, scratch that. It was snarky. I could also stand to step back from my kids, but as there are a couple who need to move on and OUT, I'm not going out of my way to make them very comfortable by biting my tongue. I tell them they can avoid all my editorial comments when they have their own places.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your visit with you son. I am so happy for you!
I caught myself, and turned it into more a objective statement. It's going to be a challenge! Son's flight cancelled out of a phoenix so now a rebooked one tonight.
DeleteI hope your son gets in on time and your headache subsides so that you can enjoy him to the full!
ReplyDeleteThat headache subsided, but another took it's place. Now just dealing with so much snow! Yeah, son will be delayed.
DeleteHope son's plane makes it before the storm! It does look as though you're going to have quite a bit of snow. When daughter first moved to Minnesota I used to make a visit in January but the weather is so unpredictable we've moved it to March this year. Hopefully by then it will be a bit better.
ReplyDeleteI like your goal lists. I'm not good at social things so I don't think I'd be accepting a lot of invitations. Husband and I do make a habit to go out together every Sunday. We take a trip somewhere and a walk. It's really nice.
He would have been in the lull, but they cancelled. Fingers crossed tonight. I think getting in a habit doing things together weekly is great.
DeleteIt is a real skill to parent adult children, it’s a fine line to walk. I often overstep on a daily basis, and then get an eye roll, and have to remind myself to step back and not micro-manage. I’d like to think I could adopt that goal too, but in all honestly I’d be lucky to last a day. Megan.
ReplyDeleteI was at such a different stage of life at their ages. Times are different now, but I need to back off but be supportive.
DeleteI love your joys and sounds like you have some really good intentions for the year! Enjoy time with your family!! I'm happy you'll have them all home.
ReplyDeleteIt's delayed a day, but he's safe. I can't wait until he's here.
DeleteHappy New Year, Sam! All the best to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to you too!
DeleteI hope your son gets home safely. You're having some proper weather there at the moment, aren't you?
ReplyDeleteVintage selling in the run up to Xmas plus the ongoing Royal Mail strikes made any attempt at work pretty much pointless . I was so excited to get back into my routine I was listing stuff at 6am on Friday morning. I do my best not to get crabby with people who ask stupid questions on ebay - what size is this 48" chest jumper? Really?! xxx
We are in a walloping batch of snow. DH and I shoveling in shifts. It's wet and heavy. People really can be idiots. That's not snark just fact.
DeleteHope you get an amazing trip with your son, and I love these goals!
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