Do you read or have seen the comic strip Pluggers? They are little takes on "normal" people (the people are animal characters) life, and how nice and good and positive that simplifying life can be. Like yesterdays take, "You're plugger if you have a bag to hold other bags." Reading posts by others that are plugging along with life, not being ostrich's about the virus, the political climate, the earths climate and all unsettling things, but not letting these things consume their days has been good for me. I will try and embrace that tone as well. Last night I made a list of little spruce ups I want to take over the next seven days and launch for my family, the holiday season with feeling a bit more refreshed.
I've been practicing no self care lately-five minute showers in and out, whipping my hair in a braid or bun and getting on with the day. I think my attitude has taken on that same no care approach but writing down here so I remind myself to take better care of me.
Physical me:
- Cut and color my hair. I think tt will just be self chop, and have one of the girls double check that it isn't too uneven, but the over grown mess has been weighing my face down.
- Trim, file, and paint my nails. I am blessed or cursed whichever way you look at it, with fingernails that grow very fast I'll cut them low, and after several days, they seem longer than I'd like. They are now at a place where if they grow more I won't be able to type with them, but instead of just cutting off, I think Ill give myself a nice manicure.
- Deep moisturize my body. I am developing dry patches all over, and I have a bad habit of scratching and giving myself little sores. First though I need a neck to toe scrub, then oodles of good lotion.
- Yoga, stretch, lift, etc. My walks are not cutting it for enough exercise, and I have not done as well as I keep telling myself I need to be. My daughter told me, I need to move more during the day and se is right. The yoga mat is by my desk as a reminder, and short videos are available.
- Stop the YouTube highlights, lowlights of the political ping pong and stress. I'm sure I'll learn what happens when something actually does happen. Until then, it is only arguing and posturing and I have gotten too sucked in.
- Purge Twitter-no political accounts. Again, I will still get breaking news if there is any, but I signed up for Twitter to stay on top of organizations I like, tracking a current event or topic and networking. Time to go back to just that purpose and stop feeding monsters.
- Do it. On someone's side bar of their blog, I saw another blog has a title along the lines of "Things get done when you actually do them." I am sure I butchered the intent, but I think it means to accomplish anything, a person has to actually act. I can say I want a nice clean tidy kitchen, but guess what/ It won't be a nice clean tidy kitchen if I do not do it. I want to get better about saying what I want and then acting to make that happen. I see so much productivity with the extra time people have had. I am envious, but envy doesn't get things done.
- But...I have to stop comparing what I do and don't do with what others do and don't do. Getting ideas are great, but feeling bad about myself and my home and lack of progress and results just perpetuates my inaction. It's an unkind cycle I get myself in. Please keep sharing all your really great projects though as I need inspiration-while I table any misplaced envy.
I suppose my nails are the one thing I do keep up with since it involves only sitting! My hair needs a cut and color, too. It looks awful! The person supposed to come and clean today is a no-show, so that is that. No clean house, here. I DO have a bag to hold other bags! It sort of puzzles Tommy.
ReplyDeleteI guess you are a Plugger as well.
DeleteOh I looked in the mirror today and saw that my brows are a mess. Like you I need to moisturize my body too. Some personal grooming is much needed on my end too.
ReplyDeleteAnd then, the day ends, and all I want to do is crawl in bed!
DeleteI've been pretty much in the same place you are. It's just so easy to fall into it these days, and with the virus numbers going up at an alarming rate I just get in a why bother mentality.
ReplyDeleteI actually did my hair a bit today, and put on a touch of mascara and blusher. I am presenting on a meeting, and thought I shouldn't scare people!
Deletethese are just hard times. It is hard to stay up with all that is going on to bring you down. Politics,covid, lack of interactions. Thank goodness for you and the blogs.
ReplyDeleteI was thinking the same thing. I am appreciative of blogland.
DeleteI need everything right now (no hair since COVID & maybe over a year?) And, I'm letting the color grow out, which looks unfortunate. I haven't been moisturizing, or doing my basics & I need to get back to that.
ReplyDeleteMy fitness has also taken a dip in November, and that really keeps me on track & feeling good. I need to get back to it. This is a hard time of the year, as the daylight is shorter & everything just feels a bit dreary.