Friday, November 23, 2018

The Thirfty Mind Set When I Can

Thanksgiving was good! At DH's cousin, we were entertained by my niece playing with a phone picture app that could alter a photo such as a women to what they would look like as a man, or how someone would look older or younger. It was pretty funny to see how much I look like one of my brothers, and DD2 looked just like DS. DH looked like his sister, which is funny as I never thought they looked much alike at all. At my sisters later, we played a few card/table games, always with money, which was a lot of fun. 

I will admit though I spent more time prepping food in the monring, than I imagined I would in my head. Though I only brought sides and appetizer type foods, I started prep at 7:30, and was not completely done until 10:30, then had to watch the ovens to make sure the timing was right for loading up. I know that is nothing compared to those that made turkeys, stuffing, and mashed potatoes and  set up for hosting. 

I shared that I made my spinach dip differently this year, skipped the Knorr soup mix, and through a couple recipes on line, sort of created my own. It was delicious, and a hit. Did it save me much money-perhaps $1.00, but took at least another 5 minutes of dicing carrots, onion, and a bit of celery, and adding the dash of lemon juice and seasoning salt. It netted me $12 per hour if I calculate out that 5 minutes of work for $1 savings, but the result was a fresher tasting dip, with a lot less sodium. Compared with the  $15 veggie tray, with a minuscule amount of spinach dip DD2 took home from a work party, unopened, my veggie tray was an absolute bargain. The office over bought and as she's the office vegetarian they sent it home with her, and she in turn brought to a family birthday gathering a couple weeks back. My veggie tray with spinach dip (including ample veggies to refill) cost $7.80. I had at least the equivalent of three trays, with leftover dip. Prepping the vegetables  and making the dip,  including clean-up took 30 minutes, netting me $74.40 an hour. My readers are probably not ones who run into deli's last minute and buy veggie trays, but if I was ever tempted in the interest of saving time, this little math problem illustrates what my time was worth. 

I want to recognize though that I am able to do this because I have hands that right now, work well, a full kitchen and room to prep and store said vegetables, nor do I have small children, in fact the opposite, one who can help. I don't want to come off as a disablist, or insensitive to those with so much going on they literally can't find the time. This is  just recognizing that while I can do these small acts of labor, in the interest of saving money to put elsewhere, I should. There will come the day when I want family and friends to visit, or for me to join them, when ordering a prepared Thanksgiving meal will be what works. The time will come when I want to make a fresh crock pot of soup, and buying ready cut vegetables will be my only option. 

Without another tedious math problem, though I love them dearly, math nerd that I am, there are dozens of examples of thrifty I do now, that I know someday will not be able to do any longer. 
  • parking farther away to get free or cheaper parking meters
  • carry on suitcases for travel
  • keeping my heat low in the winter and air conditioning high in the summer
  • doing our own shoveling and lawn maintenance
I hope it is decades before I need to consider the above, though some things I'll have to pay more for will come sooner. I don't know when my flare-ups will happen with my arthritis pain and never temper down, or when my knee will completely give out. Right now, the days I feel well are a gift and doing these things for myself, for ourselves, help us prepare for when we can't. 


15 comments:

  1. Fellow arthritis sufferer here. My hips and hands suffer the most. I do things that I can when I can because I can.
    I am glad you had a lovely Thanksgiving. I would have run from the room if somebody shoved a phone in my face, no matter how cool the ap., but that's me. I can't stand looking at somebody else's screen!
    I made the whole meal, from appetizers to dessert. I even cleaned up. The day started in a bit of a panic, as when I hopped in the shower before putting the bird in the oven, about 9 a.m., our power went out. I got out quickly (no power, no water) and decided this year we'd go to Rite Aid BEFORE we put the bird in, and just hoped it would come back soon. Driving down the late, we passed our beloved neighbor, who had just come in from a night shift. He was starting up his smoker to put the turkey in, since power was out. Poor guy was exhausted! DH and I giggled to each other, because we know he was hoping to come home, grab a nap, and wake up to a beautiful Thanksgiving dinner, but he is the guy in charge of the smoker! In any case, while we were gone, two of our son took DH's Cadillac, and drove over the bridge (15 miles) to see if the Y was open so they could shower, but it was closed. Something sweet happened there, though--when elder DS pulled up to the Y he made littlest DS run up to see if they were open, as a woman was fiddling with the locks. According to littlest, she said she was just running a check on the doors, but asked if he needed a place to be. He explained that the power was out, and he and his brother just wanted a shower, then pointed to DS waiting in the car. I was really pleased by her concern. By the time we all came home, maybe an hour later, power had returned, elder DS had his shower, and I was able to put the bird in the oven.
    We did eat later than planned, which gave DH some issues, but he didn't complain. DH relayed a conversation he had with eldest DH late last night, when found himself up from easting such a heavy meal so late. Eldest DS asked DH if he was o.k. DH replied he said "Oh, yes, but I ate too much," to which DS responded, "Yeah, that's easy to do with Mom's cooking."

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    1. Goodness, look at all those typos--that's arthritis for you--stiff fingers.

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    2. I'm the queen of typos, and it drives my older daughter crazy-especially my typos in the blog. I am sure your meal was phenomenal and so nice that your family appreciated it. My sister sent us home with turkey, even though we didn't eat the meal there, so between my daughters friends giving and all other leftovers, we still have a day of leftovers-yum. My niece is 8, and she was very respectful with the phone and ap-asked first. My mother-in-law didn't want her picture taken and the little girl was so sweet-that's Ok Grandma.

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  2. Glad to see I'm not the only one who runs out to R-A on Thanksgiving. If Meg B. goes too I am in good company. lolz

    Glad you make your spinach dip even better and kept Knorr outta your pocket a bit. hehehe

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    1. Ok-so I did CVS with some deals, not your deals, but OK deals, and now I have $11 value bucks. I think if I follow you right, the trick now will be to use those $11 on things that I earn new value bucks for, as cheaply as possible, layering other coupons if at all possible? do I have it sort of right? Well I a happy I got my baking candy at or below my budget, plus a hair dryer for DD2 as she will need her own when she goes off to college. I got some stocking stuffer things, which I would have bought anyway, for DS (gum and razers). These were the things that gave me the value bucks, but he didn't take the $2 of the Hershey candy so gave me those in Value bucks as well. Geesh-now I need to make sure I sue by 12/23 so I will lookin Sunday's paper where I can leverage.

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    2. You got the gist of how I do R-A Sam. Drugstores using their store script are the best ways to shop for stocking stuffers in my book. I'll take a look at the CVS ad and give you some ideas on how to roll those Xtra Bucks if you want. I used to do that for Sonya Ann at CVS.

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    3. Oh how exciting to learn from the master!

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  3. I went to Rite Aid, and prepped a full Thanksgiving meal, despite getting home the night before at 11 pm with an empty fridge.. It was really fun to prep. I did have to do a chicken vs a turkey (no time to defrost). Nick made the pumpkin pie, and it was fabulous.

    I love Thanksgiving! We had a wonderful time. Hope you have a relaxing & fabulous long weekend.

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    1. When did you shop? I'll have to reread your post. Isn't it nice to have the kids pitch in and master things.

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    2. We pre-bought anything we could (stuffing mix, canned beans, etc) & then ran to the local grocery store when we woke up. I ended up with a whole/fresh chicken, as there were no non-frozen turkey breasts, which was my plan. It was great, and just the four of us. I never really stress, because if something goes wrong, well, the kids aren't really going to notice/care. ;-)

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    3. You are the most efficient person I have met in real or cyber world (not that cyber world people aren't real!)

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  4. Sluggy,
    I think have conversations with you in my head as I wander the Rite Aid aisles every Thanksgiving, especially if I've had more than two mimosas before heading out.

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    1. All the best people shop at Rite-Aid. Hey, I should pitch that as a tv commercial to them and we could all star in it! hehehe

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