Saturday, March 21, 2020

Reclaiming a Sense of Normal

     I've only blogged five times in the last two weeks and most of that was ranting. I still see I'm having a reader or two, so thank you for sticking with me. I realized this morning that my sense of grounding has partially been out of whack because things that I had done as part of my daily life, that really are not impacted at all by the current health crisis, have been pushed aside for the most part.I might need to alter the time of day, or the mechanism, but there are things I can take back in my life that won't disrupt the precautions and measures as a world we are doing to try and flatten the curve of the spread of the Corona virus. Taking back time to blog is heading to the top of my list.

     First, let me get out of the way how the crisis is immediately impacting me and my family


  • I'm working incredibly long hours, and am practically on call outside of the hours  people generally sleep. That may die down a bit this week as education plans are worked out, and resources identified for schools. I'm taking a shift on the call center tomorrow morning at 7:00 a.m. I'll still be working on grants and contracts to get those resources flowing, and starting in April we have to start the process for the next fiscal year, while winding down this fiscal year. All this means, is that the crisis work has impeded regular work, so the long hours will continue. I need to say this though, I am incredibly fortunate that I have a job and will not lose personal income. I can do much of my work from home, though we are rotating days to ensure there is a few managers on hand, well distanced.
  • DD2 has moved to on-line school, supposedly to April 13, but she is hearing of other schools closing for the remainder of the year so suspect her college will follow suit. I imagine there will be a schedule for getting kids moved out of the dorms. She misses her friends and feels bored, but takes long walks, and does the social media stuff. She is infuriated with spring breakers, and when she see's friends hanging out like this is nothing. 
  • DD1 is working remotely as well until April 3. She has much better internet than we do, so on days I am working from home, DD2 may join her at her place. Our circle of people has been very tight. My older daughter has been very creative with taking a Yale course and doing home virtual work outs offered through her gym. She's using the time work wise to master some new equipment, programs, something related to her work that I do not understand completely.
  • DH goes to shorter hours, and I am flabbergasted they have not had to close completely. I suppose the government figures people will need cars. The service area and parts area laid off  people though. Up until Monday, he was just as busy, but the last couple days has slowed nearly to a halt, so we can expect reduced income. 
  • DS in California is on the shelter in place guidance. He has access to gas, groceries, and is getting exercise, so trying to stay mentally and physically healthy. Fingers crossed California has done enough and in April, and he can start working again, along with everyone else. 
  • We are stocked with groceries and stores are fine, if not sparse on some items. I have yet to find the elusive package of toilet paper, and now our TP roll count is down to four. I have cleaning supplies, but to see my house you wouldn't know it. That's going to be my Sunday, with DD2 and DH, so the week can start with more order. 
     That's done, and other than to perhaps slip a toilet paper update, I will try to avoid any  complaining, or navel gazing on how we are impacted, because we're no different than anyone else. I hope I and my family are being kinder, more patient, and generous to help our nation and world move forward. I am conflicted a bit about tightening our belts even more and spending to support the small business. We did get take out last night and I left a hefty tip. This was the restaurant DD2 worked at two summers ago, and the one that provided free kids lunches this past week when school was out, and some families had already lost their jobs. I plan to pick up a growler of beer or seltzer from the brewery who host our wonderful trivia nights. We'll get dairy from the creamery that supports our church breakfasts, and the pizza place that supported traveling basketball. I'll send  another donation to our local food bank, and as I restock items, I'll buy extra cans and boxed items to go into the little  free libraries that have been converted to be little food pantries. 

     Thank you all dear blog world friends. Keep safe and healthy, and let's all stay in touch. 

17 comments:

  1. You put me to shame! I have just contributed cash to Meals on Wheels here in town- it's still operating thankfully. I haven't left the house for 8 days and yesterday started to get a little testy. My pity party didn't last long however- I still have plenty of food and lots to do if I wanted to do it. Plus like you I am getting paid. GD and I are doing story time this afternoon on facetime. She is just in kindergarten but a good reader and will read to me from Charlotte's Web. Her family is on total lockdown in San Francisco but my son who also lives there is out and about due to his medical position. He doesn't want me to leave the house. Local DD will bring me anything I might need and just drop it on porch. No fun but this too shall pass.

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  2. Hugs to you on trying to help set up the system to keep kids educated. Our colleges have shut and kids only had a couple days to get out of dorms, neighbors picked up their daughter and her stuff thursday

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    1. DD2 has 2/3 of her stuff ay school since they said April 13. Now it will probably be rest of year so will need to move her stuff. I hope our education planning works.

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  3. Sam, I love that you said you hope you ad your family are being kinder, more patient, and generous to help our nation and world move forward. I agree so much with this. What we are going thru has been very humbling and I see how the community I live in has risen to the challenge to feed people and take care of them. It does my heart good to see this. I hope and pray that this loving kindness continues long after this. Take care.

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    1. We all literally need to be there for each other now.

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  4. For the most part, people in my community have been very generous and helpful, going out of their way to extend themselves to others in need.
    Not sure our distance ed. will be mandatory--being called a "resource." It isn't even due to roll out until 3/25. You know, if they had stuck to paper, and not put so much of their information in virtual format, say, issuing a text for each kid for each class, and not allowing report cards/graduation until text was returned or paid for, equity really wouldn't be a problem. Besides, books as a form of data retrieval never become obsolete.
    I am not allowing any griping or complaining from my kids...or anyone else either. Seriously, we have internet, we have cable, (or streaming services). I tell my kids to picture their grandparents as teens during WWII, with rationing, blackouts, and only a radio (if they were lucky) and newspapers for information! If they are at a loss for something to do, I can surely find it for them!
    Yes, people feel desperate...a rant of my own which I can't hold back...perhaps we should remember how desperation drove some in our country of plenty to behave when we think of the poor souls risking everything to cross the border for refuge.

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    1. I agree with you wholeheartedly Meg. While these are trying times we have to put things into perspective too don't we!

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    2. Sam,
      Your last sentence says it all. I really do not mind rants or frustrations from anyone. So, rant on. Here, there is a set of classroom books that are used by students and never go home. BUT, each student has a set of books at home so they can use them for homework. Lockers have been eliminated, so students have no place to stash books. So, the backpacks going home would be too heavy if they had to keep all books at home and bring to school.

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    3. My kids been keeping busy, but bored with not seeing friends. She's having a group FaceTime now while playing video games. Earlier we played Catan.

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  5. I forgot to say--your school system should have lots of tp that it could sell you or donate to those who cannot find it. Why not put a roll in a plastic bag and sell it one roll at a time. I saw someone had done that.

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    1. I found a couple more double rolls and four boxes if tissues in a closet, way in the back. It was like a winning lottery ticket.

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  6. Oh, the boomer troll is back. :-( I bet they have also made their way to my blog.

    Anyway, we worked around the house today & got a ton done. We've basically shifted around all of the rooms in our house, making two new offices & ensuring the kids have a place to do their remote learning.

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    1. Spammed him! Tomorrow will be focused on the house and normalizing.

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  7. Sam honestly email me your address at celtickim2@yahoo.com and I will send toilet paper.

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    1. We'll be just fine. I have a positively Tuesday update for tomorrow. Found two rolls of double size hidden in a closet, along with four additional boxes of tissues. Lottery winner!

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  8. All is quiet here and are considered "essential" as we have 10 retail lumberyards/hardware stores that the company I work for owns. So business as usual and it really hasn't slowed down either. Hubs on the other hand won't see a new construction project for a couple weeks, not because of the virus, but they ran out of material. We just do what we can, hope we don't get sick but assume we will at some point,took him 4 stores to get the few items on my list today but I am happy to give up some of my chores to him. Stay safe all!

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