Friday, October 28, 2022

Friday Free for All- No Flair for the Dramatics

     


     You've all been so kind. I appreciate the little nudges of humor, encouraging words, and just virtual hugs. I feel stronger today than I did on Tuesday morning to cope with the life challenges. As I said, there's hard work now and ongoing, but will be worth it to see the results. Nothing will just be miraculously good, but can be better and resiliency can grow.

     There's people that seem to have drama in every situation, inflate inconvenience and irritation for actual problems. Granted, when inconvenience causes financial hardship, I get the stress.  I'll just say, I really don't want drama, but sometimes reality is tough. When looking for a past picture to post, I saw this one I used back on an early year post. I don't think we're too far off our goals, but it feels more challenging than the hope I felt going into a new year. But, I am determined to make the most of the remainder of the calendar, and face 2023 strong. 

     It's Friday and I have no agenda this Free for All post. I do have things I want to tackle, enjoy, and ponder the next few days. But first, one of those pain in the butt inconveniences. 

Plumbing Issues 

     DH warned me when I got up early that he had to shut the water off completely. We've got a plumber coming between 8:00 and 12:00. Two years ago it was the line to the kitchen. Last spring pipes in the shower, now the leaking toilets. Can we just get the bathrooms upgraded and renovated already? Who knows how much this will cost but it's a necessary expense and I'm grateful for plumbers that have skills to fix. But, more belt tightening is called for. 

On Weekend Plans 

     A mom friend texted about getting out for a walk this weekend. Yes, please! I haven't met up with these ladies in ages. I also must do a proper clean of bathrooms ( well, of course with the plumbing needs) and kitchen, not just a surface clean and tidy.  Church Sunday will be good. There's a gathering after, 12-2, prior to the city Halloween candy crawl. The Vikings game though is at 12, and I know DH will want to watch. Maybe I can convince him to miss quarter one and  go for a bit. My daughter and I usually don't pay much attention to until the 4th quarter, which seems to last as long as the three previous. 

     DH's pants still haven't come into Kohl's but hoping I'll get the email and can pick them up today. I might treat myself to Starbucks with gift cards I have lingering and maybe a Target wander. I don't need to buy anything though. Belt tightening!!!

Ready for the Election to Be Done 

     November 9 can't come soon enough. I think I can stop into city hall for early voting. I may be at my daughter's on election day depending on how the dog recuperates from neutering. We want to make sure he's not stressed and can recover well. All political flyers go right in the recycling bin. I wonder how high the stack would be had I kept them? The thing I will miss though is the opinion poll and earning my $2 bills. I'm up to 10, $20 worth from the last two elections. The outcome scares me though. Loosely hinged bad actors intimidating voters at poll drop boxes is sickening. Now there's reports that election workers in at least 7 states are getting threats. Can you imagine their candidates in charge?

     I've got the news on and they just hinted the Federal Reserve is going to raise interest rates again. I'm beginning to think there is nothing that's going to help the economy. Covid years sucked life out, the supply chain, the job market, war, it's all just an international web of large and small actions and inactions so tangled that moving  a few threads just seems to cause a knot elsewhere. I think we all just need to be kind and useful wherever we can and forget any faith in politicians. 

     There's enough water to make coffee, so that's the first action. I am taking my flex day off as scheduled, with my automatic response on.  I'll have my work phone handy, as is needed when it's a flex, not a vacation or holiday. I'm hoping it's quiet. Wish us luck that both the plumber can fix the issue and I'm back in water soon. Jump in and share your Friday thoughts. 








18 comments:

  1. My brother used to tell me when Mom was still with us that it must be hard to live with drama. But the thing was, the only time there was drama was when he started it. LOL 😂

    I too am grateful for people who can come and help us fix things with their skills. I’ll gladly pay up for them as they are worth every penny. I hope the plumber can get your water restored today. And I hope you have a good weekend.

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    1. Belinda, my ex-husband was the King of drama - saw drama EVERYWHERE. He was also forever creating chaos and I became his chaos janitor. I read somewhere that narcs like to create chaos to keep you on the back foot all the time (my husband's psychiatrist put in an evaluation that he thought he was a covert narc). Damn, nothing has ever spoken to me quite as much as the chaos/drama comment (not suggesting your brother was like that, but my ex definitely was)!

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    2. That's what I don't want. The things causing me concern are very real. The bathroom is an inconvenience. Though doesn't everything feel worse when in clusters? The plumber is getting my fust pump tomorrow.

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  2. Having no water is a real pain, you don't realise how often you use it across the day. I hope yours is restored early.
    I hear you about bathroom cleaning, my entire house needs a good going over rather than just the surface clean it has gotten for the last few months. I really wish I was one of those people who could be in a set routine with household cleaning, but it just isn't in my skillset. Megan.

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    1. Fortunately, he was as a Rick star and water is back and leek fixed. There's some damage though but that'll get repaired.

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  3. I hadn't heard about people being intimidated at drop boxes (I'm not exactly tuned in to the mid-terms of course), but damn, when did elections get so nasty. Oh, and if it makes you feel any better, my whole house needs a good scrub right now!!!

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    1. In Arizona I guess there were reports if people walking around like military! Ridiculous.

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  4. You're not alone Sam. Life has been hard the last three years and has done a lot of damage all over the world. I try not to worry about things I have no real control of, but it is hard sometimes. I hope the plumbing issue is solved quickly!!

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    1. So many people have it harder. I just want my people safe and healthy.

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  5. I hate the drama but I tend to feel so deeply for others that I try to absorb their pain and it just doesn’t work that way. I need to remind myself that their choices cause their issues and me worrying my life away won’t change anything. I refuse to watch any local programming because the commercials are just disgusting, back to back to back political ads, each contradicting the other. One of our news stations did a report on how they are allowed to lie in the advertising without any repercussions. They waste so much time and money and none of them ever really do anything. I’m on my break right now, willing the clock to move faster. I’m off this weekend, the first one in a month with no real plans. I am more than content to grab some takeout tonight, put on my emotional support sweatpants and park it on the couch for at least a day of nothingness. I want pizza and coffee and hallmark movies and college football and blankets on top of blankets to snuggle into. The Penguins are out on the west coast so I can catch them later. I have a bottle of wine that I’ve been saving for a good night and it might be tonight! JoAnn

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    1. You are right- it doesn't help, but hard not to feel it with them. Enjoy your weekend. I hope you get all your movies in.

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  6. I try to avoid drama because it does me no good, unless it is a dramatic play that I have paid to see. That being said there are some train wrecks I seem to be drawn to as an observer.
    Hope you get together with some friends over the weekend, and hope the plumbing issue is resolved quickly.

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    1. That's what I feel too, but hard sometimes to see clear. I'd like to go to a good play soon.

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  7. Life just seems to keep throwing spit balls. I guess we have to learn to throw back. I really feel for anyone trying to buy or sell a house right now. The inflation in prices is one thing but with the interest rates on top almost impossible for most Americans. Have a great weekend my friend. Get out and take a walk and enjoy!

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    1. My daughter's payment would be 20% higher if she closed today! In just two months. She got in at not a perfect spot, but after the crazy bidding, but with not great at interest rate, but not like now.

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  8. Not having water is horrible, no matter what the reason, such a trial. I am glad it is back on.

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    1. Knowing it was going to be fixed made it an inconvenience. That's what I mean about drama. The sky did not fall.

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  9. I read these in reverse, so I am glad to see people supporting you; I am off to find out what was the matter.

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