Friday, March 12, 2021

What a Week-In W's

      What a week. Yesterday was a press conference to mark the one year mark of Minnesota's first Covid-19 case. I had just come back 52 weeks ago from New Orleans for a  business trip, with the last day texts and emails exploding cancelling subsequent trips. I drove that Friday to get my daughter for my nieces wedding on the 14th and was hearing the plans to start closing things-but not yet schools at that point. Well, no more need to rehash, as we all know the story. DH said his mom got together with her three sisters and sent a picture. All have been vaccinated, so a positive mood. The crab ass in me though is annoyed seeing  "I got my shot" from people that did little to no social distancing in  the last year as evidenced by big family get togethers, vacations, and were the first ones  in the bars and restaurants when they opened to limited capacity. Then, I try to remember, each person is one step closer to all of us being in a better place. With that shared, that starts my Fridays recap of my life, my activities, and plans in the form of my Friday W's. 

What's top of mind: The vaccine connector and getting DH in the door. With his heart  issues in the past, a TMI in 2010, he meets the next round priority. Technically I do as well with RA, but since I work from home, I'm focusing on looking for a slot for him. 

Where I've been: Working at my daughters was a nice change of scenery. It meant no risk of a barking dog for the important person meeting, and I was out of the space where we needed lightbulbs replaced in our ceiling  recessed lighting. It's nice having good light again! We had dinner at my daughters on Saturday, and it felt like a big night out. She is such a good cook. I also picked up another two books by curbside at the library-I need to return some. 

Where I'm going: I didn't end up stopping at Kwik Trip for the grounds beef sale as we need other things and I'll do a middleish shop this weekend. I'm debating driving to Aldi or staying in town. If I go to Aldi, I can treat myself to a Starbucks, via gift cards. Stay tuned to hear my big decision. I'll get out to a park or the river as well with the dog-of course I will as that is the highlight of my weekends. 

What I'm watching: No movies this week-I've watched Premier League soccer on Saturday and Sunday mornings. Well, it is on in the back ground as I go about my morning. I think I watched a few episode's of Moving On steaming on BritBox. Each  90 minute or so episode is a different take on someone moving on from something-letting go, deciding a different path is OK too than what was intended. I've been watching episodes off and on for the last year. I did not watch the Meghan and Harry Oprah interview. Did any of you? Are you following  their story at all?

What I'm reading:  Reading wise, I picked up the next book club book, The Taster by VS Alexander. The other Vegan cookbook was available as well, so I have that to look through over the weekend. 

What I'm listening to: While I have not watched the interview, I can't help but hearing news coverage of it. I'm also listening to programs stripping back  issues of racism in both in the US and the UK, depending on which radio station I am streaming. 

What I'm eating: There was some good responses to my Wednesday pantry post. The verdict from most was meal kits are expensive and  most of you can cook better meals from your own recipes and ingredients. However, I agree with those that  saw the use for people  with busy schedules, new to cooking, or just want home cooked meals, but don't want to stock up on groceries. Clearly they have a place in some peoples kitchens. I'm making country style bone in ribs and the carrot-apple slaw and roasted potatoes for dinner. Yum-looking forward to it. It was supposed to be yesterdays meal, but since I  worked away from home, it works better today. I also wasn't feeling great last night-DH made himself a pizza of which, I will eat leftovers today for my lunch-or a mid morning snack as feeling a bit hungry not having eaten supper last night. Oh, and I am back on Diet Coke, but trying to keep to not more than one a day. Well, this week has had a couple two can days. Worry once I start pouring rum into it during the week.




Who I'm paying attention to: Lot's of who's, myself included. Last week I mentioned that a very stressful issue happened in the work place with, hurt and feelings of not being heard by my non-white colleagues, experienced microaggressions, and lost opportunity to make progress in our place of work towards racial equity. By Monday, this had exploded. While it may not have been the direct cause, it had to be part of the decision for our top executive to step down, effective pretty much immediately. This has a tumble down effect. My boss's (who was promoted a year ago and her position still not filled) boss, was promoted to that top spot-now there are two holes above me. I've already taken point on three projects, Covid related, that are outside my core responsibilities, and yet my job duties have not waned. My team is frustrated, a bit with me, as they don't feel like they are getting as timely responses as they would like from me or my colleague that is trying to serve in an interim director role, but also have been really good support, stepping up as they can, and when they can. 

What I'm planning:  Oh man am I looking forward to the week away from my computer for a vacation week-not for another two full weeks though. I know I'll be pulled in here and there, but getting some head space and time with my girls will be a great respite. I'm planning to get communication to all the extended family on the Adopt a Park, and our selected first clean-up date of May 1. I think I mentioned, my sister offered to host an outdoor gathering after the clean-up. 

     
      It was and wasn't at the same time a typical week. The snow is melting-my yard is left with just the pile from the snow plow, and the side yard where sun doesn't hit the same way. The back yard is in desperate need of grass seed, so hope we can get that done Sunday, but look at all the bare spots. The firepit is inviting me, so maybe that will be on the weekend plans if it is dry out. That's about it for my wrap up-another W! Play along in the comments if you are so inclined. 


18 comments:

  1. I hope you have a wonderful vacation week and can de-stress from all of the issues at work.
    It is so nice that you are able to go to your daughters to do some work. It is not only easier but it is a change of scenery. That is something I am needing desperately!

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    1. It is odd what even moving to another space in my house does for a change! I'm having battery issues with my computer so not as mobile as I would like to be.

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  2. Bailey was also upset at the resellers who did little to no social distancing in the last year and kept thrifting as though nothing was happening. They were some of the first ones to get the shots! ugh!

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    1. I am perplexed how other states have had a bit of a free for all. Minnesota isn't perfect, but they did start with older adults, and health care, but then moved into teachers and child care, and now 45+ with health conations. It's still so hard to get appointments though.

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  3. Wow, that is a big deal at your workplace. I hope they put their $$ where their mouth is, and work towards more diversity and understanding etc. It's hard because racism is so intergrated in systems, but it can be worked on if people just try.

    Glad that you have a vacation week coming up!! :)

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    1. It's a communication thing-a many balls were dropped. I won't say more, but we've gotten good feedback in our division that we have been showing good leadership, so that will continue.

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  4. Oh poor you. I hated tensions at work - well I hate them anywhere - and I hate the feeling of walking on eggshells. I bet you're really looking forward to some time off!

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    1. Tensions are just really high in Minnesota/ Minneapolis area and will be for a long time with the trial. There were just so many ways it could have been handled to support staff that would have been so well received.

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  5. I find myself having "vaccine feelings" about people who don't believe in COVID & didn't follow any social distancing getting the vaccines. It's particularly irritating, because California has struggled with supply issues. But, I try to remind myself that it's awesome they are getting the vaccine, & reducing risk for everyone. It can sometimes be a struggle for sure.

    I'm sorry about work. Hoping things settle down from a conflict perspective, but also with the work load balance side for you.

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    1. Supply issues are universal. No word from my son really on things getting better in Southern CA. That's the think to think of-with each vaccination, the risk is lower for us all.

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  6. While I was at work today I got a text from a friend about an upcoming clinic that her sister in law heard about. I immediately called my dad and he was able to get in. I’m so excited! He goes Wednesday at 10:45. My friend was also able to get in even though she’s only in her 50’s but she recently beat cancer so they said she qualified. Makes my heart even more happy! On the flip side, my daughter’s boyfriend’s mom, the one that went on vacation is getting her vaccine bc she has worked a few days as a substitute teacher so somehow that qualifies her? Ugh. I guess it’s good she gets one bc she’s not changing her lifestyle. Not fair though. I work with people everyday and I’ll probably get one in July of 2022 for my luck. My workplace drama is just petty middle school garbage, not anything as serious as yours. I can just imagine how draining it is for you. My big night out this week was a trip alone to Sam’s Club. We decided to renew with gas prices going up, tonight i saved 17 cents a gallon over the other local stations. JoAnn

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    1. Good for you and your dad! I just heard several of my older siblings now have appointments. I'll keep trying for my husband. I wish people in retail were a higher priority.

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  7. Speaking about diet Coke- I gave it up during Covid. I had a couple of 12 packs in the beginning and when they were gone, for some reason, I just never bought any more and really forgot about drinking it. In fact, when my sister was here Christmas, I was embarrassed to say I had no soda at all. I completely forgot about buying it for guests- no company but her for the last year. Weird because I have always enjoyed at least one daily. I just drink water now and even tap at that.

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    1. We got a lunch deal form BK and it came with a pop-it tasted so good, that I just said screw it, and bought it the next grocery store trip. I need to keep to one per day though.

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  8. I hope you enjoy your well-earnt break, relax and take good care of yourself, sam. I'm glad that your snow has melted! xxx

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    1. Thanks, Vix. It has melted, though we will get more, but that will melt fast-usually does for March and April snows.

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  9. I do enjoy these; I think of you when I do mine.

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    1. Do you nod off to sleep when you think of my post? Nothing too exciting in my World of W's. I'm glad you like recapping in this way as well.

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