Let’s suffice it to say, DH’s family is not avid readers and the lack of reading material not brought by my family is minimal. The cabin/house is an odd mix of not wanting clutter, yet clutter abounds in knick knacks my MIL still likes, plus the hideous lawn ornaments, with no special meaning, but just accrue each year. We have tried to wean each other and the grandchildren from giving her gifts that will just add to the clutter outside and in. Mowing and weeding is a pain in the neck with the extra gems to work around. Dusting, which should take minutes, can be an hour to move the little frogs and turtles and assorted picture frames. So while professing no one wants clutter, there is much.
Last week I got caught up with a good stack of BHG from July-December 2019. Wile normally I wouldn’t even notice if they were a year old, the absence of words like social distancing, quarantine, lockdown and of course Covid, was strikingly noticeable. And it was so nice! I lament a lot, maybe more than others, maybe less than I could, about how I am getting Covid fatigue, and just want something to be normal again. Diving into these old magazines gave me a taste of it. For instance, picking up the September issue and seeing all the cute backpack, and prepared lunch box items let me see that life can be normal again. There weren’t articles about managing hybrid learning models while working form home. There wasn’t one mention of keeping your holiday dinner table to less than 10, and making sure you are only having Thanksgiving within your chosen bubble of people. There was not a pattern in sight for mask making, and no homages to front line workers though I would be fine with those how of support pandemic or no pandemic.)
My family laughs at my obsession with decluttering at our vacation house. People often leave things (puzzles, games, movies, books, magazines, extra food in the pantry/fridge/freezer). I let the occasional item stay if useful, but mostly send it home with others so the house can stay uncluttered. It's all brought with good intentions, but vacation houses really have the uncanny ability to turn into clutter.
ReplyDeleteLuckily, the house is ours, so I can be ruthless. I can't imagine trying to work around that. Clutter is hard for me.
Since this is ultimately my MIL's cabin, her rules apply, as they should. But, she doesn't do the work on the place, which is the annoying bit. DHs spent two hours weeding what essentially is just a parking space instead of just weed whacking because she likes to think she has a garden.
DeleteWe went a different style with our vacation property. We bought a condo in Fort Lauderdale in a building that's managed by Hilton hotels. It has a small owners closet for personal items to be locked away but that's it. The Hilton rents it out for us when we aren't using it and we share the profits. The thing I love the most is that there is no clutter whatsoever!
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DeleteWe've looked at that, and it would not work for us because of the limited number of days we would be allowed to use it ourselves. Maybe there are other options, but I saw a 60 day total. (mistyped so deleted and started again)
DeleteWe don't share the lake house with any other family member so any clutter is mine alone. I have a few tchotchkes because I like them, but not many. We don't worry about books at the lake because we read from our tablets and take them every time, though the downstairs bookshelf does have a number of books for guests to read.
ReplyDeleteI'd like to have a few lake reads ready and available, but I guess folks do just bring their own reading material.
DeleteOh dear, looking at those magazines makes me think of my former in-laws house. In the downstairs toilet next to the den my MIL had a basket with magazines in. Nobody really used that toilet but .... One of the magazines in there (last time I went - which was in 2003 I think) dated back to 1975. It used to make me laugh every time. I did ask her one time if she knew Princess Diana was dead! And I guess we all know about covid fatigue. There's nothing we can do but grit our teeth and bear it though is there!
ReplyDeleteYes there were some lingering in the old cabin from decades earlier. I found a 15 year old magazine in a desk drawer-must have set aside and put back in the drawer and forgot about it.
DeleteI watch older TV programmes and really notice people hugging and shaking hands. Let's hope for the return of better times soon. Arilx
ReplyDeleteOh yes-and then I long for that, and I a not a hugger. The Hallmark channel will soon have all the Christmas movies-I'm torn about wanting to watch. Will it make me happy or sad.
DeleteWe have friends that I know are hoarders, they have a large cabin and guess what....
ReplyDeleteI don't think we will ever get it that bad, so hopefully when this years magazines come, last years will go. It was a nice distraction though while on vacation form Covid news.
DeleteI would appreciate some pre-Covid magazines these days too. Love Better Homes and Gardens.
ReplyDeleteIt was a nice mental break. I'm trying to look at the positive things still going on.
DeleteI have few magazines of any kind, but what I do have is a mixture of pre-covid and present. I think the pre are so quaint and soothing.
ReplyDeleteIt's like a window to what will hopefully be our lives again. Though, I know many Asian countries routinely wear masks without even giving it a thought to help control illness spread Maybe that will be the norm for colds, flu etc.
DeleteIsn't it strange how things are so different and how we've become accustomed to our new way of life? I find myself watching tv and shuddering at the lack of distancing, non-mask wearing or groups of people socialising. xxx
ReplyDeleteThat's how I felt when we had to walk through the bar area to get to the outside patio seating area-I was internally shuddering. I think mask wearing, during cold and flu season, is probably a good idea all along-that and people just plain staying out of public when not well. If there are ways we can help keep other people healthy. That should be the new norm. Why mask wearing has become a "freedom" issue is beyond me.
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