Friday, October 14, 2022

Friday Free for All- Welcoming Meditation

      Happy Friday all. Yesterday was a long day, out the door by 6:10, two and half hour drive, present, drive back, get through urgencies that came up in the day, before getting the puppy ( who's so big and leggy) walked. I was happy I put aside all the good stuffing for a sort of chicken pot pie last night. I need to make soup, but that won't happen with my weekends ahead, so the meat not used will freeze with the bones for soup making next week. I write about anything in Friday. Join my meandering thoughts or add your own. 

Native American Prayer and Meditation

     My meeting was hosted by and on Tribal land. The greeting involved a prayer with tobacco, drumming, sage burnings, and pipe smoking. The tobacco was all of our hopes and prayers. I listened to the presenter and felt a calming, almost meditational, feeling. We all can learn from our ancestors, our neighbors, our friends who have other cultural norms and rituals. It was special to be included. Even with the chaos of work and dogs, I'm trying to keep myself grounded through finding at least 10 minutes a day to just shut everything out. 

      I had a cry Wednesday night, not even sure why. It just sort of came out. Did I feel better? I didn't feel poorly before it happened, but I guess I needed some sort of release. Being an observer of the pipe being smoked with tobacco that represented what we held for prayers, or wishes, or dreams, helped me understand a bit why people choose to smoke. I'm not starting anytime soon, but the ritual of letting your mind release stress and pain with each inhalation of the tobacco I suppose is similar, before adduction that is, of the calming of the ceremonial pipe. I'll keep taking my breaths with just pure air though. 

To Do List Paper 

     At the meeting they had To Do List pads at each space. I've never understood dedicated pads of paper for lists, groceries, activities, etc. I'm kind of a reused envelop list maker. I suppose the pads that have menu planning with them grocery list space serves a purpose, but I'd never purchase them. I do like a good planning calendar though with space for writing things. I stopped buying them too, even the one I could get for work. It was serving as nothing more than a notebook. I'll put a freebie to use though. 

View leaving northern Minnesota.
Peak color is pretty much done. 

Weekend-Early Week Plans 

     My daughter and are going to brave the cold Saturday morning and check out her neighborhood fall festival for a bit. It will be a good place to socialize grandpup. We've got a trip to a few shopping places too, Trader Joe's, Indian grocery, and Sam's Club. My plan is basics and things we can get better bulk prices. I mean it when I say no frivolous spending if it doesn't meet my personal wow meter. I'm going to let DH get a really good night's sleep Friday and stay with puppy at my daughter's. She has to bring him over for doggie care for Tuesday when DH will be on his own for the morning. I'll leave Sunday afternoon for my conference but back for afternoon care, walks, and feeding.  We've had some set back nights with getting him to sleep all night. Shots on Monday, a storm last Tuesday, me gone Thursday, all disrupted our pattern. But, our pup is a little less grumpy, until he had his own vet checkup and shots in Thursday. 

     Oh, and guess what? We got snow  this morning, October 14. It should be more a dusting then melt but it's here none the less. That's what I got for this Friday. Jump in and share what you'd like. 




22 comments:

  1. The Native American prayer sounds wonderful. Over the last 15 years I have worked with people from so many different countries and cultures and I love learning from them.
    Sounds like a nice week. Enjoy the Fall Festival tomorrow. It's really looking like Fall here. Snow already? I don't want any until Christmas. lol

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    1. Snow, but it was gone by early afternoon. It'll be fun to see fun to see how the village runs a festival.

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  2. Wow, it’s early for snow, but how neat! We get it so little here that I enjoy it, not like when I was growing up in Illinois. We had big snows back then!

    The tribal meeting sounds so interesting. It’s so neat that it had a calming effect on you. What a great experience.

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    1. Nest was not my word! I'm just glad it was too warm to stay. I did feel calm after the opening greeting.

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  3. The prayer sounds lovely, sort of like a cleansing. I’m lounging a bit this morning and then a few hours of housework. I was supposed to have lunch with a friend but we rescheduled for next week. So I think I’m having lunch with hubby instead, DD has gotten him hooked on Panera and he said he has a craving lol. We may do a little grocery shopping only bc it fits into our schedules and we are trying to go to the Asian Lantern Festival at the zoo tonight. I’ve heard it’s beautiful. It’s going to be cold and we have snow predicted for Tuesday which ties the record for earliest snowflakes. Perfect :/ JoAnn

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    1. Cleansing was what the intent was. Appreciating the day, the work we do. Nothing wrong with a delicious Panera lunch.

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  4. That is early for snow, I assume?! Wow. We're having great fall days - chilly in the am/evening, but lovely during the day.

    We have a reasonably calm weekend ahead. Nick is taking the PSATs, & reffing a game. He'll miss his own soccer game, due to the test. Sam has one soccer game. And, tonight, Sam will be able to pick up Nick from the football game, which is a huge win for me. ;-)

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    1. Way too early for snow, but it didn't stay. Having another driver is so helpful.

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  5. My dh's best friend, that he lost to cancer about 10 years ago, was part Native American. In addition to his Catholic funeral service, his relatives also did a ceremony with the tobacco and sage burning. It was one of the most spiritual things I've ever witnessed/been a part of.

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    1. It really is an honor to be included in the blessing.

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  6. Snow?! That seems indecently early!
    the meditation session sounds really interesting and your plans for the weekend lovely.
    Dark Scandi thrillers, the pub and a curry for us this weekend! xxx

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    1. Yes, too early. Winter needs to hold off. Your plans sound terrific.

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  7. Sam, Inhuman Resources is a mini-series I watched. I believe it was on Netflix.

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  8. I would have loved to take part in that ceremony - I'm very open to that kind of thing. If it "works" for me, it works, if not - well it doesn't matter does it. But crying is also a great release too, isn't it. And yep, I'm with you on my lists. I write them on the backs of envelopes BUT I keep an A4 hardback diary on my desk (i.e. the ironing board in my bedroom) and I would be lost without it. Just today I was taking care of my grandson and when he had his nap I updated that diary with everything I could think of, just to declutter my mind! I need every bit of brain space I've got, so get it down on paper says I!

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    1. I guess I blog to release pent up emotion, the cry actually surprised me.

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  9. Snow? I saw it snowed a lot in Michigan. Here, I am still comfortably wearing sandals and a short-sleeved blouse and no sweater, even.

    I would never get near a ceremony with tobacco smoke or smoke of any kind. It would not calm me, just send me into an asthma attack. Some businesses have diffusers going. They cause me great distress.

    My great cd, Birds of Alabama, is great for relaxation. Facing green shrubs or anything green calms me, with or without birds.

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    1. I know it's still been quite warm south of here. I guess you'd have had to leave the meeting.

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  10. I read your comment about things appealing to your 'wow meter". I could never use that because I am wowed by too many things! New products are like a siren's song to me.

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    1. I've thought of the wow meter since reading Tightwad Gazette. It's stuck with me in times I've tried to belt tighten. I still need to declutter. I just can't get ahead. Having clean spaces and less stuff would be my biggest wow.

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    1. You might not. It was an odd cry. Just from no where and sort of scared me a bit.

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